90-Day Decision Audit

A Reflection Tool for Grief and Leadership

This 90-Day Decision Audit is a reflection tool for anyone navigating grief while still carrying responsibility.

Despite the name, this is not a countdown and not a checklist you rush through.

It’s a pause.

At a grief training I attended, we were advised to avoid major decisions in the first year after loss if possible, and especially in the first 90 days, because judgment is altered in acute grief.

This quick audit exists to help you:

• Slow decision-making without stopping entirely

• Take inventory of what truly needs attention right now

• Name what can wait, be delegated, or be revisited later

• Protect capacity during a season when emotional load is high

You can use this tool whether you are in your first 90 days or well beyond them.

Grief does not run on a clock. Reflection shouldn’t either.

👉 Download the 90-Day Decision Audit here.